You're Unbelievable!!!!

Sometimes I write in a personal fashion and it often creates misunderstandings that, I think I go deeply into humans evolved. This leads to a sense of familiarity, even friendship, which is wrong because what’s going on there is not friendship.
We only learn this by living, television doesn’t teach it, schools don’t teach it, and if you’re above a certain age, our parents didn’t teach it. You have to learn it by living, by thinking of someone as a friend, only to find out they don’t think of you as a friend. It can be devastating, I know, I’ve been there myself. 
Friendship is something you choose to do, you don’t do it out of a sense of obligation. To force someone to be a friend is to not have a friend.
Friendship is not a state of mind, it’s an act. It’s something you do, it’s not about whether you’re good or not, it’s not a reflection of you, it’s a balanced relationship between people. That doesn’t mean it’s always balanced at every moment. I learned a lot about friends I remember when I got sick in 1997. I learned that a friend is someone I trust to be with me when I am at my weakest. And they are people who, no matter how painful it is to see, are willing to be with me when I am so helpless and weak. If I would trust my life with you, and vice versa, we are friends. It’s not about whether you are trustworthy, or whether you are friendly, it’s the actual act of trust that is the basis of friendship. If I trust you to be truthful, then you’re a friend. If I find I must be careful how I say things, then it’s something other than friendship.Today people make friends so that they can compromising or make a deal and you cannot find the true friendship in this ERA.

Mother's love is PEACE

There are various forms of love in this world. The most eternal and important is the relationship between a mother and child. They do not require any words. An infant feels the love just by touch of mother. When child start speaking, whatever he or she speaks, mother finds love in that. Whether it is America, Europe, India or any part of any country, children of all countries learn and speak " Maa (mother)" in their local language. A mother loves her children even when they least deserve to be loved. 

It is believed in India that the worship  of mother is equivalent to worshiping god. But, now a day in nuclear family mother is a burden. Therefore, this relationship does not exist. However, mother still love their children, but children do not care. Present parents in nuclear family should realize that their children will do the same thing  with them as they are behaving with their parents.

Beauty Enhancement Awareness Among Boys

In today's era, boys are much curious to enhance their beauty as compare to girls and obviously the reason for the same you all must be knowing. Now the names have been converted from saloon to "PARLOURS". Now in fact the branding companies are also focussing on the same like they started producing Fair & Handsome with Fair & Lovely. The guys started spending their more than half of pocket money and time in enhancing their beauty and improving their hair styles. Dudes have started keeping creams, gels, lip guard etc. in their bags & just after reaching college/ school they are in favour of entering in the wash room first before entering their class rooms. Even studious guys are also a part of this disease, now the fashion has laid them to shift from spectacles to coloured eye contacts. But, ofcourse this step has improved their confidence to prove themselves that they are not lacking behind the girls in any respect and at last but not the least I can bet......."BOYS ARE BEST JAANLO, BAAT YE MAANLO".    

No one can think everything

Technologies and the conditions of society are changing day by day very rapidly. Technologies, which we are using nowadays, were not used by our grand parents early and will not even be used by the next generation. Everyone wants to be updated with the technologies. Whether it’s a change from black and white TV to the colored one or the heavy mobile sets to the light weighted I-phones!!!!!!!

Earlier no one could have thought that we will be using Internet for video calling from one country to another and even earlier no one knows what Internet is? Earlier the computer use to be meant for only scientists or the elite class people but now everyone from middle class family also has desktops or even laptops.the families who used to cook food on "chulha" are now using the gas facility or the heater facility at their homes.So, one cannot think everything about the changes going to happen around us but we can only follow and update ourselves with the new technologies and the new trends.

In short I will say that Technology makes our life easy and help to invent and discover new things. Thanks to the information and communication technologies through which we can communicate with each other around the world easily.we hope that these improvements in technologies will help the country to develop.

Happiness as a tribute to parents

Relationship is the bonding, connecting, behavior. As the baby born, gets involve in relationship with different people till the last breath of life. The relationship with parents must be strong. As the time passes parents get older and their children grown up as adult, form their own family then they realize the pain, and challenges, took and faced by their parents. This is the time when their parents feel lonely as they miss the noise of having their kids around them. Children should not forget their parents in any ways.

Children can give tribute to their parents by sharing their good moment with them, Showing respect to parents at all times, can organize a small picnic for them along with the family so in this way it will be an outing for their parents as well as the entertainment, can make a trip for 2 to 3 days to any religious place, can arrange lunch or dinner with some of their old friends, relatives, nearest and the dearest, this way when their parents see all of them after a quite long time I am sure the parents will get wet their eyes.

If anybody does the same then it will be a true love and honour to their parents and they will feel proud of their children. This would be truly a heaven on the earth for every parents. We should not forget that one day we also have to pass through the same age then we will expect the same from our children.

And I am proud that my father and my grandfather have arranged a party as a tribute to my great grandfather, as he has completed 100 years of his life with good health and wealth.

Moms and daughters shop together.... and enjoys it..

 

Moms and daughters shop together…..and enjoys it.

This tradition is certainly not new, but where mothers might have had to drag their daughters kicking and screaming to the malls to shop for clothes, this is not longer the case.  Moms still read the same fashion magazines as they did before they attained Mom status. Today’s Moms are often health conscious and fit; they look and feel young and refuse to abide by outdated societal fashion guides to ‘dress their age’. This brings mothers and daughters closer together on the spectrum of fashion trends more than ever before. Shopping for clothes with Mom is a treat, a delight, a time to be together and bond over something both are passionate about. Proof can be seen nearly every week in paparazzi photos of famous Moms shopping with their daughters. Even Madonna and her daughter engage in elaborate mother-daughter shopping trips. The boundaries between the generations have shifted and overlapped, rendering everyone virtually the same age in ‘fashion’ years.                                                         

Forgot books..after facebook

we all are very familiar with the new online book called Facebook.

No place to hide, hard to survive

Nowadays, many people are illegally migrating from Bihar and Bangladesh to New Delhi due to their basic needs and economic condition or reason. From this illegal migration population is increasing on a daily basis and its creating a problem for our country. Problems which our country is facing are poverty, unemployment, illiteracy etc.

This picture indicates that these people are homeless. They don’t have night shelters and many of them have night shelters but there is no space to live there. So these people have to sleep on roads, footpath, railway station, bus stands. They are not having anything to eat or drink, they are unemployed, and they can’t make their children to study so many of them start begging just to survive or to earn something for their family. But begging is illegal in Delhi through an extension of the Bombay Prevention of Begging Act of 1959 but still many people are begging. And many of women start working as a servant and their husband or father start doing work as a laborer on sites and many of them ride rickshaw.

Despite Indian Government and NGOs are running many programmes for the betterment of beggars. Free education, meals and medical facilities are offered to them at all government sponsored hospitals. Yet beggars don’t take advantage of these facilities. Hence only opportunities giving better employment, income, pension and not NGOs’ programmes alone can solve miseries of beggars in India.

The Blue Lagoon

There were moments when ths sky is splattered with colourful dots.Below,the blue waters reflect them.For a while I was not sure whether I was dreaming or looking at a real phenomenon.By and by I become one with the scene.Indeed,if I can do so,I feel the joy of freedom,of infinity,of adventure,and of faith.For,I am there to welcome the symbols of all these qualities.They are birds coming from not only our neighbourhood of Bangladesh or Nepal but distant and still more distant lands – Australia,Siberia,so on and so forth.Year after year they visit the great lake they are so fond of,a little before the winter sets in.They venture to fly over villages and towns,hills and forests for thousands of miles.

This happens at Lake Chilika,the largest lake in India,situated in Orissa,about 100km from Bhubaneswar,the capital of the State spread over 1100 sq.km.Chilika is India’s largest blackish water inland lake.The lake is rich in aquatic fauna and is a bird watcher’s delight.The lake is encircled by hills all along its arched shape,and its colour changes with the passing clouds overhead and the shifting sun.Chilika is well connected by air,rail and road.Bhubaneshwar is the nearest airport,situated 105km from Barkul,130km from Rambha and 110km from Satpara.Many attractions are there within the lake like Birds Island,Kalijai Island and Satapara.Birds Island is a haven for resident and migratory birds and is a bird-watcher’s paradise.Kalijai Island is home to Goddess Kalijai.The temple hosta a huge fair on Makar Sankranti every year.Satapara is a retreat on Chilika lake near the confluence of the lake with the sea.The sight of dolphins round the year ad abundance of migratory and resident birds in winter make it a preferred vacation spot to enfoy nature.Boating facilities are also available at Satapara.The nicest time to visit Chilika is during winter,when the lake reverberates with the cries of its avian population.Boats,to tour the lake,can be hired at Balugan,Barkul and Rambha.Accommodation is available at various places in available at various places in and around the lake.Some of the hotels are maintained and managed by the OTDC (Orissa Tourism Department Co-operation).

Dealing with crime against women

 Today in the world of technological advancement, where our lifestyle has sped up in all walks of life, but still our views are lacking behind. Even when several women's day have turned up and go, we wish and we forget. Newspapers have carried out large advertisements of government and political parties congratulating Indian women on their day and making tall claims about the upliftment and welfare. It is ironical that new stories of atrocities on women are relegated to inconspicuous corners. No doubt, Indian women has come a long way, but she continues to be plagued with hordes of problems like Gender Bias, eve teasing, sexual harassment, molestation, forced marriages, dowry deaths, female feticide and female infanticides etc. 

  I would like to ask, in such pathetic conditions, how can the girls dream of justice and liberty? Look around and you will see cases like D.G.P. Rathore's, where the culprits go free and enjoy freedom. So now it’s high time to seek answers from the government, when will all this end? When will an Indian woman be able to hold her head high, and lead a life of dignity?

  Until the golden day dawns, girls should adopt all the safety measures to protect herself, otherwise she will continue to reel under it for no fault of hers.

social media makes communication interactive

Social Media is media for social interaction. It is the use of web-based and mobile technologies to make communication interactive. An umbrella term that defines the various activities that integrate technology, social interaction and the construction of words, pictures, videos and audio. Millions of conversations people are having with each other across the world 24x7 is described through social media.

Social media is the no. 1 online activity. 2/3rd of global internet population visits social networks. Social media has reached to the top spot because millions of people are creating content for the social web. In all cases social media is free. All it costs is our time. It is not just social networking rather social networking is a part of social media. Social media is a wider concept which includes facebook, twitter, youtube etc.

Social media is distinct from industrial or traditional media such as newspaper, television and films. It is relatively inexpensive and accessible to publish or access information. The use of social media is growing tremendously. It has made people's life easy and comfortable. In coming years, social media will become the communication mode for the whole world.

We,the people in our democratic ideals!

Our republic turned 63 today, and like every 63 year old has had more than its share of crests and troughs. Throughout the parade and the entire program our country showed its power and abilities to face the war and impress the Thai prime minister. But I guess that till date every one of us knows that how much powerful is our country.

The main point where our country lacks and which is constantly neglected at every particular level of our government is pushing our country back-“corruption”.

It is darkest side of our country which is still pushing it backwards. Ek deemak ki tarah hamare desh ko khokla kar raha hai. No matter how powerful we are no matter how beautifully our buildings and roads are designed; as long as corruption is there in our country we are and will always be stay diffident only.

In this short piece of work I would simply like to say that just by shining our positive aspects we cannot run from our weakest points, so we have to accept the truth that our country still lacks behind in terms of development and should work on it.